Note: In putting the final touches on The Sentiments, I came across this short essay, “On Beauty”, and considered tacking it on the end of the collection. Knowing that it would be somewhat of an anomaly, as it is an essay, not a short story, I’ve decided not to include it in the book, but feel compelled to share it here, at least. This was written in 2007, apparently, and I vaguely remember writing it during a period when I was waging a slow, personal war against the hectic pace of modern civilization. Long-standing frustration and anger with the compulsive consumerism and financial obsessions of the first world had given away to a resignation not to participate; my “war” was and continues to be one of opting out, as much as I could, from the unnecessary stresses of a hyperpaced society. In opting out, I began to relax into my own being, and realized that the true nature of work is not enforced by external rewards, but driven by internal needs and desires. Where before I had been forced or had forced myself to participate in the hourly wages or salaries of the market economy, with this new resignation to ultra-minimal income, I began to work in a way that had been denied for a long time. With relaxation came flowing routines; not forced, but patterned like the natural fractals of chaos. I found my element. I began to work. This essay is an early piece of that work.
We suffer in our culture from a profound lack of appreciation of beauty. Beauty is not lacking, that’s for certain. Most days, anyone can see and experience beauty, as subjective as it is, in many different ways: through meetings and chance encounters with beautiful people, through the appreciation of plants and animals, the flow of water, through human design and architecture. We are fortunate to live in lands of great natural beauty, in societies of material abundance and possibility for wealth; yet so many people speed through their days in a blaze of caffeinated competition and delirious, excessive consumption, failing all the while to ever take a moment to really rest. Even on breaks from work, people too often devour food, not savoring; run errands for various essentials and inessentials; or simply deny themselves the full experience of a short siesta.
Beauty replenishes our spirits and feeds our capacity to love. The more I recognize beauty and the pleasures of the senses, the clearer it becomes: beauty is all around us, even in garbage, weeds, menacing storm clouds. Yet we must consciously intend to be receptive of beauty, to let it work on us and play through our essences.
I am fortunate to be at a point in my life where I am able to take plenty of time to slow down, to enjoy walks and the warmth of sunshine on my skin, to take care of myself and my partner and our animal companions and our home. In the past, when I have felt compelled by culture or circumstance to “work” at a pace that is unsuitable for my body, mind, and spirit, I have felt bankrupt, numb, devoid of much feeling at all, simply performing a string of automatic motions threaded together in a grueling daily routine that paid off in some amount of cash. For me, living this way is a sin. Living driven along by the omnipresent cultural urgings to consume and work more, I find myself trapped in a life that lacks substance and any kind of joy. Sure, I may in such times experience moments of happiness, laughter, or appreciation, but those moments pass quickly, leaving in their wake once again the underlying strain of emptiness and discontent.
People are not meant to work like machines. We are meant to work, definitely, but to our capacity and no more, and we are meant to work with joy and loving devotion. Work also should not define us. We should define our work; work should flow from our personalities naturally, like language, laughter, or perhaps, at times, sweat. To work compulsively for money, status, or other societal achievements is to become a slave. Indeed, in a true free society, individuals would not feel the pressure of achievement and the strain of financial struggles. Am I suggesting utopia? Perhaps, although I do believe what I envision is possible. What we lack and so desperately need in our individual lives are qualities like trust and love.
These essential human soul foods–trust, love, beauty, a search for truth, communion–are all to be found by creating and establishing community. Western society is deprived of community. Impoverished by our lack of connection with others, we strive boldly and brazenly to build walls and create fortresses or islands in which we can live. Sometimes we may invite others into these fortresses and share our resources with them, but this we only offer to a select few, and never really those who need it most. Often motivated by status, career, culture, or religion, we chose carefully who we invite into our inner circle.
I believe that we should all be choosing carefully who we invite into our inner circles, but that our care should be based on qualities of establishing relationships, of sharing love, of giving of ourselves but also receiving from others. When people are in relationships of trust and love, the walls begin to grow thin. Doors open, small holes appear, someone opens a window. In doing so, and in giving and receiving not necessarily material goods but the great intangibles–smiles, hugs, kisses, laughter; friendship, security, honesty–we strengthen ourselves and other individuals. We strengthen community.
Many Native American or Indian peoples find it essential to “walk in beauty.” Beauty is of course not fashion (although it may be complemented by fashion), not to be found in idealized patriarchal images of women’s and men’s bodies. I believe that appreciation of beauty, immersion in beauty, and outward expression in beauty must be desired, found, and explored by each individual in our collective communities. Then by sharing our joyful beauty with others–the colors, the tones, the music and shapes and forms of beauty–we create positive cultural feedback. Other may derive aesthetic and sensual pleasure from our sharing; they may be inspired to great beauty themselves.
A question I ask myself now is, “Does beauty have the power to transform the world?” I think it is an important, essential quality, and I do believe that without the appreciation of beauty in our communities, the world will continue to be lacking in substance. Material things, of course, only last so long. Beauty, like life, is born and breathing anew in every moment. Beauty moves, and so must we. We must change ourselves and our attitudes to be truly beautiful, and in doing so–in embodying and knowing and appreciating beauty–we contribute to the harmony and peace of this miracle planet that we have been blessed to come into service upon.
Here’s the latest and perhaps last version of the “Volcanic Landscape” piece I’ve been working on for Illustrator’s Workshop. As of now, I’ve taken it off my drawing/painting board and have moved onto actually working on the illustrations for the print edition of The Sentiments and other stories.
Guest Post: Nick Kristof’s Half the Sky: Finally a glimpse of the whole of the moon for women worldwide?
This review of Nick Kristof’s book Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide was written by Jutta Tobias and originally posted to her blog, From Washington to DC, on Thursday, September 10th, 2009. Jutta is a psychologist and a traveler, trying to help improve the status quo, and currently working in DC as a lobbyist with only social science as ammunition to influence (some) Congressional staffers. She is proud to have had a couple of lines of legislative language included in the behemoth health care reform bills, making them even less environmentally-friendly to print out. Her heart belongs to the rocks and skies and seas of the American Northwest, so she may keep oscillating between Washington and DC for a while yet.
Nick Kristof had me at hello, so to speak, years ago. Not that I really met him before today, and I cannot even say that I genuinely met him this afternoon. Though we did exchange some polite words after his book launch event at the Woodrow Wilson Center, of the most readable Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide. And thankfully I only figuratively fancied the man anyway; his wife Sheryl WuDunn, co-author of the book, was also there – and she is everything any sane woman would shudder to get into competition with: beautiful, eloquent, elegant, a super-smart Pulizer-prize winning philanthropist investment advisor, but it gets worse still: she may even be extremely warm, nice and funny, judging from her remarks at the event.
The reason why I’ve liked Nick Kristof for years now is that he’s simply a brilliant New York Times columnist who reports on what I most like to know more about: people in countries all over the world, especially those in upheaval and unrest, and what we in the northwestern hemisphere can do about it. And then, about three years ago, he started the annual tradition of taking a lucky young person with him on a reporting trip to Africa, after a selection process that involves writing an eloquent application essay (google ‘win a trip with nick kristof’ to apply). I had just come back from my first trip to Rwanda when I found out about this amazing opportunity, and applied, knowing that I hardly had a chance, utterly independent of my writing style – because of my extreme luck, having already spent a summer in Central Africa meant that I would not have selected me. But in my application essay, I urged Nick Kristof to take a woman with him, independent of who he’d choose. I had the sense that young women in the US would have fewer opportunities to go and experience real Africa, and that the multiplier effect of a chance to travel with Nick Kristof would somehow be greater if he chose a woman as his travel companion. No idea if he ever read my essay, or took to heart what I had to say. Yet he did make the perfect selection: he took Casey Parks with him, a young woman from an underprivileged background who hadn’t spent much time outside the US and who had all the potential that all underprivileged women hold. It’s almost unnecessary to say that Casey Parks shined her way through the 2-week trip, reporting back to us in a beautiful style that brought into full limelight her great talent.
And then Nick and his wife Sheryl wrote this book on women’s empowerment and achievement, despite all the extraordinary challenges they face, especially in developing and transition countries. The stories are colourful and moving, and they make us want to help more women, get them to believe in themselves and claim their rights. It makes so much sense to support women in development, from a humanitarian standpoint, and also from an investment perspective. Women are much safer to invest in than men, Sheryl says. Sheryl and Nick also talked about the sad fact that in so many places, women don’t have the confidence to speak up about their needs, and so their rights come last, time and again. We need to support these women in developing a voice, perhaps by speaking on their behalf until they feel safe to do this themselves (in addition to all the things they do day in, day out, to keep families and communities together and functioning).
Yet the clincher for me, and for my continued cultivation of my Nick Kristof cult, was that Nick’s first comment at the book launch was on making our advocacy on behalf of women worldwide more effective – and he referred to some of the great social psychology insights that are, sadly, underused by the humanitarian community. That made my social psychologist’s heart sing. Nick and Sheryl’s book is so moving because it allows us to make an emotional connection with the people in the stories, and in this way it helps build emotional commitment within the reader “to do something”. Nick says, the humanitarian organisations ignore the fact that people don’t get moved by issues pertaining to groups (and it’s true, even just 2 people are considered a group – so the personal connection with their individual strife is lost right there and then). And, we want to be part of something that’s successful, rather than being presented with a cosmic problem that is far too complex for us to wrap our head round (gives me a headache just to think about that one). So Nick and Sheryl, in their book, focus on different stories of different individuals (in addition to presenting all the facts and figures that would help with grant-writing and official reporting) – because they know that it’s the personal story, and the emotional bond that it creates with us, that motivates us to get involved. Sheryl was right in pointing out that the corporate world has been using this little trick so very profitably for decades, by “selling from the right side of the brain”.
These tactics can be used ethically, and help promote pro-social causes, and they don’t require expansive advertising budgets. The main thing that’s required here is a mental shift from trying to persuade an audience with lengthy, logical arguments, to appealing to the values and feelings that we all share in this world. Compassion, concern, commitment. I’ve recently created a brief summary of this type of advocacy message re-framing, available here.
Social change agents with a mission, listen up. Use the methods Sheryl and Nick apply so effectively, and grab a piece of that sky for your cause.
The first edition of the Free-e-day brochure was published on October 1st. Free-e-day is “The World’s biggest celebration of Indie Culture” and you can find out more about it by visiting the Free-e-day website. The e-book edition of The Sentiments & other stories will be part of this celebration, but you don’t have to wait until December 1st to download and read the collection. You can do it now! Simply click on the image below to go directly to the download page for The Sentiments & other stories. Once there, click the big blue button that says “Download” to get the .pdf file. Also check out the first edition of the Free-e-day brochure for other free pieces of culture.
Advocating for a Revolutionary Consciousness: bell hooks’ Feminist Theory from margin to center
Twenty-five years ago, bell hooks offered this book to the public, her insights plain on the page and capable of blazing a trail through the minds of those with a capacity for critical consciousness. Perhaps it’s natural that a book like this molders in the public sphere, buried under the millions of volumes of books of every genre and academic discipline and popular trend that our society, bloated on information and entertainment, produces. Or perhaps that’s not what happened to this book at all; a quick search on amazon.com shows that the 2nd edition of this book, published in 2000, is currently ranked “#21,539 in Books”, which is actually quite good, considering amazon’s cataloged rankings reach down to 6 or 7 million. Why then have the critical and incredibly insightful passages of this book not manifested in our shared public life? Where is the “Revolutionary Parenting” called for in chapter 10? How come we have still not rethought the nature of work as a society (chapter 7)? Why do we still think largely of revolutions as critical moments in time or in terms of violence, when in her conclusive chapter 12 hooks has voiced what we all should know to be true:
Revolutions can be and usually are initiated by violent overthrow of an existing political structure. In the United States, women and men committed to feminist struggle know that we are far outpowered by our opponents, that they not only have access to every type of weaponry known to humankind, but they have both the learned consciousness to do and accept violence as well as the skill to perpetuate it. Therefore, this cannot be the basis for feminist revolution in this society. Our emphasis must be on cultural transformation: destroying dualism, eradicating systems of domination. Our struggle will be gradual and protracted. Any effort to make feminist revolution here can be aided by the example of liberation struggles led by oppressed people globally who resist formidable powers.
Our society is as fragmented, competitive, and unable to meet human needs as ever. When we look around us in 2009, we see a variation on the same post-WW II, post-Vietnam theme that plagued us when hooks first published this book in 1984. An overwhelming crunch of information, entertainment, and compulsive consumerism perpetuates the atomization of the individual and works to keep us alienated and isolated from any meaningful sense of community; moreover, it holds us as slaves of a kind to an unjust economic order. hooks wrote the book on countering our alienation, beginning to struggle against that atomization, and working together towards an emancipation of ourselves along with all people–and this is that book. Reading it is not enough. We must act to bring about social change, and before we can act intelligently and strategically, we must communicate meaningfully with each other. To do that, we could take our cues from early feminist consciousness-raising groups.
Yet even in 2009, after all of the gains of the 1970s and the solidification of those gains in our culture, feminist movement remains at the margin of society. The type of feminist movement that hooks advocates in this volume is revolutionary in the sense of that protracted struggle mentioned in the quote above. It is revolutionary in its character of never arriving, but always recognizing that there is more work to do to create a joyful, creative, and just society. In the following passage, hooks offers a perspective on parenting that I think generalizes out to our culture of authority and domination, which whether it includes women in its hierarchies of exploitation and force or not, remains the same:
Many parents teach children that violence is the easiest way (if not the most acceptable way) to end a conflict and assert power. By saying things like “I’m only doing this because I love you” while they are using physical abuse to control children, parents are not only equating violence with love, they are also offering a notion of love synonymous with passive acceptance, the absence of explanation, and discussions. In many homes small children and teenagers find their desire to discuss issues with parents sometimes viewed as a challenge to parental authority or power, as an act of “unlove.” Force is used by the parent to meet the perceived challenge or threat. Again, it needs to be emphasized that the idea that it is correct to use abuse to maintain authority is taught to individuals by church, school, and other institutions.”
The expectation of “passive acceptance, the absence of explanation, and discussions” is on full display in the corporate capitalist culture of America, and it is even further displayed outward through the imposition of that model across the globe as international corporations continue to “develop” the world, profiting as they do so. But I digress.
The point hooks makes with this collection of essays is that, while the gains of feminism may be clear and visible to white, middle- or upper-class professional women who desire to participate in an economics rooted in corporate capitalism, the failures of feminist movement are clear and visible to women of color and lower-class women, and possibly to men of color and lower-class, or otherwise marginalized men. Feminism, as hooks perceived it back in 1984, had largely become a movement whereby privileged white women declared their independence from men in order to self-actualize as individuals striving within a competitive culture–and this remains true today. Feminism, in short, has been stalled; feminism became stunted and has been easily incorporated into the existing economic structures of hierarchy, which it began its career rebelling against.
hooks suggests that feminist movement needs to be rethought and re-engaged, and encourages us to build an inclusive movement in which “revolutionary impulses must freely inform our theory and practice” so that we can come to come together as women and men, and as human beings opposed to classism, racism, sexism, and all forms of violence, “to transform our present reality.”
cross-posted at Deeply Problematic and Radical Readers & Feminisms for Dummies
Here’s the next image in this work-in-progress series. I put down a layer of ink line work, using the pencil sketch under the watercolors as a rough guide, to give more definition to the mountains and add some shading to the dust plumes. The next image will be a continuation of this line work, using finer pens to etch in some more details.










